A brother’s eulogy

A brother’s eulogy: In memoriam to Todd Martin Stafne — August 24, 1950 – April 11, 2017 Todd Martin Stafne passed away the morning of April 11, 2017 in Bellevue, Washington. He grew up in Bettendorf, Iowa. He traveled extensively throughout the world before 1992, when he moved to the Pacific Northwest and made it home. Todd is survived by his beloved wife, Mayumi, and an older brother, Scott. This is Scott’s eulogy to Todd:   Since I was 18 months old there has always been a Todd in my world. The last time I heard from my brother was in an email he wrote me at 4:58 am the morning he died giving me his thoughts on a legal document I had written. When I saw the email, I thought “Boy, he’s up early…” But then I knew, getting up early is kind of a “Stafne” thing. Little did I know then that in a few hours he he would be gone. Sometimes we forget how fragile life is. It can pass in a moment. There are much worse ways to go. Words can’t do justice to Todd. He was like a “force of nature”. To those who knew him well, the best description of him was simply “Todd.”  Back in High School they called him “Big T.” Of course, I never did. He was just my kid brother. I didn’t realize then how significant a “life tie” that connection is. There are so many things I loved about him. Todd … Continue Reading